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Relationship OCD

Relationship obsessive-compulsive disorder (ROCD) is an OCD subtype characterized by intrusive thoughts, doubts, or urges related to interpersonal relationships. People might interpret these thoughts as signs about their relationship, and may respond with compulsions like reassurance-seeking or mental checking.

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Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Is my relationship toxic?

Relationships play a significant role in our lives, whether they are romantic, platonic, professional, or familial, but they’re not always healthy.


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Am I unlovable? Here’s why you feel unworthy of love

Many researchers have confirmed what most humans already know to be true: Love is a biological necessity, just like water or food. Close personal


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How to set boundaries in a relationship

Boundaries aren’t just about learning to say no—they’re the guidelines we establish to protect our well-being. You’ll encounter boundaries in every


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Am I being gaslighted? Recognize the signs 

Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that can make you question your beliefs, behaviors, and can even lead to questioning your sanity.  The term

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Fear of intimacy: causes, symptoms, and how to get better

Fear of intimacy can be a difficult and isolating experience. If you’ve typically hesitated to form close emotional or physical relationships with others,


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Why am I still thinking about my ex?

It’s completely normal to think about your ex every once in a while. After all, when someone from a past romantic relationship has played a big role in


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Relationship OCD: Signs, Symptoms, and Treatment

Do you seem to question everything about your relationship? Are you bothered by persistent thoughts about finding someone “better”? Do you need repeated


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Why am I constantly seeking reassurance in my relationship?

It’s normal to want a little reassurance in a relationship every once in a while. You want to feel secure and make sure your partner feels the same way.

Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Limerence vs. Love vs. OCD: What’s the Difference?

Have you ever had a crush on someone that was so intense and massive it was hard to think about anything else? Did you daydream about that person all day


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Can ROCD Affect Friendships?

Obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) is a treatable mental health disorder that can affect many parts of your life, including your relationships. When


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Overthinking after being cheated on? Here’s how to move on

Cheating may have left you with a barrage of questions, and it's natural to find them overwhelming. But how can you learn to cope?

By Jenna Demmer

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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How big an age gap is too big in a relationship?

With a significant age gap, you may wonder if there’s too much distance between you. But if it becomes a real obsession we have help.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Managing Tinder anxiety and overthinking – Tips from therapists

It’s normal to overthink things sometimes. But if it’s getting in the way of your life and ability to make connections with people, it could be a component of OCD.

By Jenna Demmer

Reviewed by Patrick McGrath, PhD

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Love vs. Obsession: How to tell the difference

If you're worried about your own feelings for someone else, it's important to draw the line between obsession and love.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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First-date nerves and how to ease them

Let's untangle some of the reasons that you might be feeling first-date anxiety—as well as the kinds of steps you can take to overcome it.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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I’m scared of being vulnerable. Can therapy help?

Being vulnerable is important for building relationships, but it’s not always easy to open up. Here’s why that might be, and how to find help.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Do you think you might have Relationship OCD?

Our therapists are trained to treat every OCD subtype.

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Is it love or just lust? A therapist’s advice

How to know if your feelings are love, lust or even a sign of a mental health issue—from a therapist with expertise.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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I’m always obsessing about my partner’s past. What can I do?

Here’s what your obsessions about your partner’s past could mean, and how to find help.

By Elle Warren

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Is it bad to check my partner’s phone? Advice from a therapist

You should absolutely not sneak a peek. It only erodes trust and violates boundaries needed for a healthy relationship to thrive. Read on to learn more.

By Jessica Migala

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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Why do I get sleepy around my partner? A therapist’s take

Feeling sleep around your partner can be a totally normal experience, or mean something more.

By Erica Digap Burson

Reviewed by April Kilduff, MA, LCPC

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